** Losing Something **
Posted ಮಾರ್ಚ್ 13, 2007
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Today Morning I travelled back from Mysore.. It was a pleasant journey .. After sometime, when I had to pay the auto guy I realised that there is no money purse inside my bag… The quick thought that just came into my mind was, – ‘How do I pay the auto wallah’ than my whole belongings which I had lost few minutes/hour ago….Most of the time we are worried about the short comings of any loss and also enjoy much of short term pleasures…Why do we fail to think ahead but feel upset or joyous for that moment… ?? Well, I have blocked my credit cards, but still keep my hope that I will receive a phone call from an unknown person today or tommorrow.
-Veena
65 Responses to "** Losing Something **"
The quick thought that just came into my mind was, – ‘How do I pay the auto wallah’ than my whole belongings which I had lost few minutes/hour ago…
No flattery intended as you know I am equally critical as well… but in this case, I felt this was highly pragmatic and considerate of you. Because that the principle that auto rickshaw driver was waiting, and needed to be paid, became more important than the extremely inconvenient + financial loss of the purse! Well anyway, hope you get it back!
This reminds me of the times when occasionally someone’s contacted me to say they’ve lost their purse and have no money and just need a bit to buy a ticket to wherever they want to / make a phone call / etc. Luckily you weren’t stuck in such a situation!
srik, in general, auto guys have quite a record of returning lost items of passengers though in this case I assume Veena would’ve searched the auto.
yen madam
idu nimage mamukiya kaleduhoguvadu !!!!!!
still I do feel you have fair cahnces of getting it back based on the probability theory
all the best
What we shud appreciate is that veena regained her composure and was quick enough to block the credit cards and other.
I think that is why Mohan was saying credit cards are just fleecing the users 😀 😀
Sad to hear about the loss. Happy that Veena took it in her stride and did what was to be done, blocking the Credit card. It brings to me the memory of similar event that happenned a day before Diwali 18 years ago. Myself and my sister were going to Janpath for Diwali shopping and I had Rs. 1100, bus pass and my JNU identity card in my purse. Someone picked it in the bus! We were content that my sister’s purse was safe and we `completed’ our shopping with what she had. In a week’s time, I got new i card and bus pass. When I entered the JNU library one morning, the receptionist called me and handed me my purse saying that someone had dropped it there. Amazed, I grabbed and opened it to find that everything was there except the money. What the purse contained were no longer useful to me.
in the instant case itself there are two sides one the cleaner honest good and customer friendly and more than anyuthing has moral values imbibed.
other guy driver no such things as above make some fast buck gain no matter how it comes.
If veena is lucky it goes into hands of a clener like guy it will happen hope for the best. an veena has mentioned no big cash loss some credit cards photos etc., if you get them back joy unlimited
…but still keep my hope that I will receive a phone call from an unknown person today or tommorrow.
veena,
not at all surprised that your blog is called Optimist Mysorean.
ha ha ha wonderful wonderful – what a heart warming story veena! So we know now do live in a Rama Rajya after all ! when Sri Rama is immortal & timeless, what less about his rajya!
Just that we get misled by extreme negative sensationalisation of media that everything is bad and everyone is out to get everyone else. The media makes a fast buck by making use of this observation
Nothing travels faster than the speed of light with the possible exception of bad news, which obeys its own special laws.
~ Douglas Adams
Not that I’m living in some fantasy and getting carried away. There was a daylight robbery in a house just a few houses away from my house, could’ve as well even been my own house, just last few days ago that shook up our whole neighbourhood (quite well knit we are). Also some anonymous idiot smashed the windshield of a car parked right in front of our house (maybe some that fellow was angry with me and thought it was my car ).
Inspite of all that I still say the same thing.
I remember one guy telling me that the bus is always full of crooks and so many times he’s gotten ripped off by others. Many decades I’ve travelled in bus, have even seen a pick pocket getting caught, but still felt that he was a bit paranoid 😉
Three cheers to Mysorean’s Optimism!
(more than optimism about finding the purse again, I appreciate the optimism in not blindly assuming that its lost forever!)
Hats off to Nagesh!
Congratulations Veena…mathe Purse hudko nepadalli Arsikere ge visit a?
If I were an old timer, I would have said
“inthavrirodindane innu prapanchadalli MaLe-BeLe aagthirodu”!
Good to hear of this, anyways.
Madam antheera…answer madalla hogi….
Veena avare, good that ur purse was not pickedup by touts instead by a gentleman Nagesh . Yenu Runa itho poorva janma dalli 😀 as mentioned in our Rooster’s blog.
Wowow!
This could have happened only to you Veena! 🙂 Such an incorrigible optimist you are, the photo on that DL must have screamed at the librarian, “I know you will call me and give it back to me somehow”! It is my favourite philosophy, if you are positive you spread positive energy around you and positive things happen. Doesn’t mean that only positive things happen, it means that we see even the negative things in a positive light!
Superb post! And an even better comments section! I would have preferred to have your comment on having found the purse as a separate post! Never mind, that’s not what’s important! Purse siktu! yay! Party! 🙂
Veena:
Ivaga enu full non-innocent face aa?! 😉
Prashnth, wrt “I always keep my expectations low” – I wouldnt put that as pessimism. Imo,
one who has negative expectations = pessimist,
one who has NO/low expectations = pragmatist 🙂
Veenaravare,
namaskaara. Thanks for losing your purse (and of course getting it back). In the bargain, we got a good story to read! With a happy ending!!
I have a story to tell too.
I have a brother — my younger one — who always looks for helping others, even without being asked.
Once while traveling by bus, he met a friend of ours and her family. They too were on the bus and
were go to the same place.
When the bus reached its destination, as is his wont, my brother volunteered to carry some of the bags of our friends. He got their bags out of the bus and went with them to their house to drop them there.
When they reached the house, however, they realized there was a problem.
One of the bags my brother had taken out of the bus and carried with him did not belong to our friends! Nor did it belong to him!!
All along the way each had thought it belonged to the other.
It took a couple of days — and a whole lot of trouble — for my brother to finally track down and deliver the bag to its owners.
The bag had some expensive stuff. (Brand new silk sarees!). When the owners got back their bag, they mentioned about “Raama Raajya”.
BTW, my brother’s name is “Rajaram”.
In our family, we say, while we don’t mind living in “Raama Raajya”, we are not so sure about “Rajarama raajya”.
putti
It made a superb reading.ywears back there was a article in RD a survey to check the honesty of the people. A group went on dropping purses with fact cash in one and in other a there was a photo of sweet kid. % of purses retuned was as expected more contined the baby,s photos many on contacting said the innocence prompted them to return
oh n o no I am not saying anything like that our putii has a innocent face well prety agreed innocent well well!!!
is that Dr prashanth?
bye
great veena our theory of probalility has worked!!!!! good you got into knowing some more
people hats off to nagesh let their tribe increase. I am sure if it were to be in hands of anyone in this blog both blog owners and commentors would have done the same thing.
let god bless nagesh and family
petrob bunk petorb tumbisi next trip mysorege via arasikere.
I am very happy about the whole incident
three cheers to you veena
It is nice to know that you got the purse back, but more happy to know that people with great attitude are still there in the world ! The real gratitude is in inculcating this attitude and passing the benefit to someone else – we know that you have this attitude –
mutinatha mathannu headlinesnalli
heliddare RK
Veena
Prashanth nimage karnataka darshana madi
antha heliddare namma ooru kadehogi
uttarakarnataka sutti arasikerege hogi
via kodagu mysorege hogi banni antha yako
papa belgaum karwara mangalore bittiddare
adannu innodusala agli anthana
bhagavantha ibbarigu olleyadannu madali
In case if Auto Wallah’s start returning the things that what we have lost, we don’t learn any lesson from that in the future…
Case of Veena Madam is a best example for that.
gr8 u got back all most after 15 1/2 months reallly gr8 and Nagesh u r gr8 for having kept this safely for such a long time. perhaps the adage inthavaridorinda male bele agta irodu optly suits u. veena a very big hi five for gr8 return. treats galore is due from u
1 | gmohanprakash
ಮಾರ್ಚ್ 13, 2007 at 3:50 ಅಪರಾಹ್ನ
Thank god you are not lost 😉
Loss is loss alwe? Short or long term memories haunt us based on the attached value peposition not much in terms of money but could be emotional too.
Dont worry madko bedi.
cheers
mohan!